Sunday after mass, I stopped to say hello to a woman that recently had a stroke. I've known her for a few years and wanted to see how she was doing. She was improving greatly. She is able to get around with a cane and do almost everything she did before the stroke.
While visiting, she told me what happened that night.
She was setting the table for dinner for her and her husband, when she lost feeling in her left arm and was unable to lift it. She had an appointment the following day for a cat scan for a pinched nerve in her back. Figuring that it was the pinched nerve that was to blame, she and her husband decided not to go to the emergency room that night and wait for the appointment the next morning.
Arriving at her appointment the next morning, the nurse noticed her limp arm and slurred speech and asked her about it. The nurse recognized the symptoms as stroke and rushed her down to ER, where she was admitted into the hospital to be treated for the stroke.
During this woman's therapy, she was always in good spirits and had a great sense of humor about it. Why? What has happened you cannot change, so make the best of the situation.
She continued intense therapy for 10 straight days, working hard at it. Why? She was scheduled to go on vacation in 2 weeks with her husband and she was determined to go no matter what. Nothing was going to stop her. She was making amazing progress.
A gentleman who also had a stroke recently, was next to her in therapy. He, on the other hand, was down and just complaining. He wasn't even trying. The woman joked with him and perked him up. He saw her progress. The next day, this man started to work on his therapy. He started improving.
Since this woman ended up helping the patients with her positive attitude, the hospital did not want to see her leave. Even though she would have loved to help, she was leaving for vacation and nothing was going to stop her.
We can all take a lesson from this. What this true story shows us is, even though there are things in life that we have no control over, we can still take control of our lives. Life always throws us a curve ball and obstacles in our way. It depends on how we deal with them as to what our future holds. We in essence decide our fate. We have to make the best of the current situation. We need to be determined to change the outcome to a positive.
So, here you have it. A positive attitude does make a difference.