Horses teach us many lessons. Yes, they teach us how to ride and keep our balance so that we don't fall off, but they teach us much more than that. Believe it or not, horses teach us many lessons that can be used in our daily lives.
Here is a list of what horses teach us:
1 - Responsibility - Horses, and any other animal, teaches us responsibility. The horses rely on us to feed and water them, for daily routine care and grooming. We also have to make sure that they stay healthy with routine veterinary care and annual immunizations along with regular deworming. Their lives are in our hands.
2 - Respect - Horses and humans have to respect each other. Horses are big animals and they know it. If there is no respect from the horse, they will end up walking all over you. You need to respect their space and in turn they will respect yours. In all honesty, I wouldn't want a 1200 pound horse pushing me around.
3 - Team work and partnership - In order to have a successful relationship with horses, you need to work together. Horses like to please. If you demand or try to control a horse, chances are good that a fight will evolve. And once that happens, I think you all know who will win. You and your horse are a team. you both are to help each other out.
4 - Finances - Horses are not cheap to maintain. Since they are big animals, they require lots of space and lots of feed. If you plan on riding, you also need tack (saddle and saddle pad, bridle, halter, etc.) which are not cheap.
So you want to show your horse or trail ride him. In that case you need a truck and trailer to get him to these places. A truck alone runs into a lot of money not only in purchasing it, but also maintaining it.
Hold on, we're not done yet. Veterinary care comes into play, too. The vet has to come out annually to give your horse a check up and immunizations. What if a medical emergency occurs? Emergency barn calls are not cheap.
Then you have the farrier for trimming feet and shoes.
You don't have your own farm? Well, boarding is a big expense. Even self care at other facilities run into money.
There are many more expenses. As you can see, horses are a big expense. Therefore, you need to learn to budget yourself. Good way to learn how to budget, save money and cut expenses without cutting quality of care.
5 - Patience - Horses are like little children. You need to have patience with them. They don't speak the English language so it takes time to teach them so they understand what you are asking of them.
6 - Communication - As a follow up to patience, you need to learn how to communicate with an animal that does not know how to speak your language. You need to learn how to speak horse.
7- Caring - Without our care, the horse cannot survive.
8 - Leadership - Here's an important lesson. Horses have a pecking order in the herd. There is one horse that is the leader, then you have the next one down and right on down the totem pole to the bottom horse. When working with horses, the human needs to establish leadership with the horses. The whole relationship hinges on the human being the leader of the herd. If the human does not take the role of a leader, then the horse most certainly will.
As you can see, all these lessons that horses teach us are used in our daily lives. We can all learn from the horses.
The next time you deal with a client, just think of these lessons to help you through. Have the patience and respect for the client. Work with them as a team and care about them. The reason they came to you is because they need your help and knowledge. So take the leadership role and take responsibility for yourself. If anything goes wrong, don't place the blame on others. With being in business for yourself, you need to learn to budget your finances and learn to save for bad times.





The first time you take your horse out for a ride, make it a short workout and mainly at a walk. You can do a little bit of a trot in between. When you see him breathing heavily, you have overworked him. Each time you ride him, add a little bit more trot to the workout. Remember, he is out of shape and needs to get back to work slowly. We do the same. Would you go out and run a marathon without getting into shape first? Of course not. It's the same for your horse. 








